I am no longer in Texas or California. I am in New York for good now. BTW...... I am blonde again, not red although that could definitely change with the winter months coming. [B]GUYS!!!!! REALLY!!!!!! WHAT IS UP WITH THE BUSH??? GROSS!!!!!! Please don't email me when your bush is longer than my hair!!!!! Shave it, Trim it , then we will re-evaluate!!![/B] PLEASE READ!!!! Because we are all on this site for obvious reas there is an attraction factor that plays a large role in whether or not two people will even meet. I have decided to list of few of my additional deciding factors for your review. If you do not have the characteristics listed below then we will not meet and your wasting your time. #1. Caucasian ONLY #2. AGE: Prefer 21- 41 (slight sliding scale) #3. Height: At least 5'11 but would prefer over 6 Ft #4. Shaved or trimmed completely. The only place for hair is on a pers head. (excluding arms and legs) #5. Face Picture in first email or in profile or I will delete the email. AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST..... We all have our "sandboxes" we play in... DO NOT throw your toys over into my "sandbox" hoping to get my attention cause it won't happen. We are all in a specific "sandbox" for a rea. Newly Single. I am just coming back into the lifestyle after ending an 8 year relationship, eight months ago. There is no drama from the past, we just grew into better friends than lovers and our interests and motivations changed over the years. He introduced me to this lifestyle however he never really grasped the necessity of being completely honest with your partner. This lifestyle requires 100 % honesty. I don't do drama and I don't do baggage. If you are part of a couple and sneaking around behind your spouse’s back I am not interested. Just pass me by. I believe kissing is the most important thing in an intimate situation. It is really the beginning and the end. I love foreplay, light touching and caressing along with slow and sensual stimulation. I think many people get so excited about the experience they just forget to take their time and enjoy it. If I had to choose, I would choose foreplay over penetration every time although I prefer both! I am a pleaser but I also desire to be pleased. Pleasure is NEVER one sided. I think it is important to know someone’s body and what makes them tick in order to fully satisfy each other’s needs and desires. I am not here to just hook up, have sex or get a free drink. I am here to meet like minded individuals who share a common interest. I am here to “MAKE NEW FRIENDS” If you are NOT here to make new friends and if you are just looking to meet someone for 5 minutes and have sex with them, then please pass me by. I have way to much self respect for that. I have an extremely high sex drive. I enjoy sex immensely. I am not looking for a relationship however I am not completely closed off to the idea either. However in saying this ......I want to make something clear up front.... And please read this carefully..... If we meet and if there is chemistry and if we have amazing sex then I will want it again and again and again and again .... So...... If I ask you to come back the next night or in a day or two, this does not mean I want a relationship, it just means that the two of us had amazing chemistry in the bedroom and I want to have that again. I am not sure why this gets misconstrued. The way I figure it is, we are both consenting adults with busy lives of our own however we are still human and desire intimate contact with other people... If you are not interested in repeated encounters then I am probably not the right per for you. Re: BDSM, I am certainly more dominant than submissive however I can switch on a dime with the right man. I am not looking to become a fulltime Domme or Sub and I am looking for the same in a partner. I enjoy both roles completely although I only perform these roles in the bedroom. I am not proper when it comes to titles. I will not call anyone Master and I do not expect anyone to call me Mistress unless of course they prefer it as part of the scene. I am not hardcore however I do have quite a pain tolerance and enjoy a challenge. This does not mean my partner needs to have a pain fetish just that I enjoy it myself. I am more of a sensual Domme and more of a sadist sub. However I can certainly give just as much as I can take if not more if my partner enjoys this type of play. In saying all this, I actually prefer a very dominant male over a submissive one and if I had to chose I would give up the Domme side of play before giving up my Submissive side. Overall, none of this defines me as a per. It just seems when you mention it in your profile it always comes up in the form of a question. I am open to many things and will usually try everything once as long as it is legal. I am very selective and picky. Attraction is necessary to set up an initial meet and greet however chemistry is the most important factor. If there isn’t any chemistry it isn’t going to happen. I am highly sexual and want to find the same in a partner. In a perfect setting I would have sex at least twice a day. My appetite is a little insatiable, to say the least. I prefer not to spread myself to thin. I do not and I will not sleep with everyone I meet. There has to be a connection and an attraction. I am not into the “One Hit Wonders” or the guys wanting to fill their Black Book full of names and numbers. I am sure there is something I missed that you want to know and if so just ask. I am an open book and will share everything. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have our permission to use any of our profile, pictures, or web cams in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of our privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. 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My Ideal Person Uninhibited!!!!!
Ready to Play. Ready to have fun. NO DRAMA!

Looking for like minded adults to enjoy real life encounters with. I am open to new experiences and ready to have some fun.

I enjoy going to events. I would like to find others who also enjoy going to events.

For those of you, who are interested in an online buddy, please pass me by. I find that consumes way too much of my time and I would rather not spend my time or energy on that.

I have no interests in watching you on a Web Cam and I broke mine on purpose, so don’t even ask.

I look forward to making and meeting some new friends and gaining some new adventures.

Ready to Play and Ready to have fun with NO DRAMA!

I am not interested in Long Distance NSA FWB's. They require way to much planning and my schedule is way to erratic for that.

I do not always have time to respond to everyone. If I have viewed your profile and I am interested, I will either email, hot-list, flirt or friend you.

For those of you with no face pictures on your profile. GET ONE!!! I will not judge my attraction to you by the size of your cock. I will not respond to those without face pictures.

And to everyone else, if I have viewed your profile and you have a face picture on your profile and I haven't emailed, hot-list, flirt or friend-ed you. I am probably not interested.

It is nothing personal. It is just that physical attraction plays a vital role and if there isn't any, then the ground work can't be laid...

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Deadmau5, Hinder, Daughtry, Apocalyptica

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
NO

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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